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Chat with caution.

When you are talking online always remember that the way you are reading a chat session may not be the way the other person intends it to be read. When chatting it is easy to make assumptions, without the subtle body language we use in everyday communication knowing what is on someone’s mind is never easy. Remember that the person on the other end of your chat session may not be the person they say they are. Watch for inconsistencies in their conversation. If you have a bad feeling about the situation it is better to be safe than sorry, log off the chat session and block them!

Your privacy is extremely important to protect.

Make sure all contact on a member site takes place through a double-blind system, ensuring your true identity is protected until you decide to reveal it. Never include your last name, home address, phone number, place of employment, email address or any other identifying information in your profile or initial messages. When corresponding with someone, turn off your email signature file. Stop communicating with anyone who puts pressure on you for personal information or attempts in any way to trick you into revealing it.

Never act alone.

If you decide to meet the person you are chatting with make sure others know you are going out to meet them. Leave a trail behind you so that others can follow it. Leave the screen name of the person and address, phone number, time of your date or any other information that could be used to track you down. Leave this information at your computer or in another obvious place. Better yet, give this information to a friend!

Pictures don’t always tell the whole story.

Having pictures is great but not proof of who you are meeting! Get more info with the picture; ask questions like when and where the picture was taken. Try to get as many pictures as possible. Hopefully they will not be all from the same place and time.

Meet in public first.

The first time you meet someone we suggest meeting in public. Choose a location you can easily leave quickly in the event of a bad situation. Of he tries to follow you home choose an indirect route to make it more difficult. Always carry a cell phone! It is a good idea to have a friend phone you in the middle of the date to make sure things are going well.

Ask the Question

Know his sexual history! Know his status so that you can act appropriately. Whatever you choose to do, Bareback or be safe, at least know what you are getting into before you are in it!